Matthew Henry
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fairest among women; for true sanctity is true beauty. And now they raise their thoughts higher concerning Christ:
Whither has thy beloved gone, that we may seek him with thee? This would be but an indecent, unacceptable, compliment, if the song were not to be understood spiritually; for love is jealous of a rival, would monopolize the beloved, and cares not that others should join in seeking him; but those that truly love Christ are desirous that others should love him too, and be joined to him; nay, the greatest instance of duty and respect that the church’s children can show to their mother is to join with her in seeking Christ. The
daughters of Jerusalem, who had asked (Song 5:9),
What is thy beloved more than another beloved? wondering that the spouse should be so passionately in love with him, are now of another mind, and are themselves in love with him; for,
This is my beloved; and that flame in her breast scattered sparks into theirs. As sinful lusts, when they break out, defile many, so the pious zeal of some may
provoke many, 2Cor 9:2.
Wither has thy beloved gone? which may must we steer our course in pursuit of him?” Note, Those that are made acquainted with the excellencies of Christ, and the comfort of an interest in him, cannot but be inquisitive after him and desirous to know where they may meet with him.
We will seek him with thee. Those that would find Christ must seek him, seek him early, seek him diligently; and it is best seeking Christ in concert, to join with those that are seeking him. We must seek for communion with Christ in communion with saints. We know
whither our beloved has gone; he has gone to heaven,
to his Father, and our Father. He took care to send us notice of it, that we might know how to direct to him, John 20:17. We must by faith see him there, and by prayer seek him there, with boldness
enter into the holiest, and herein must join with
the generation of those that seek him(Ps 24:6), even with
all that in every place call upon him, 1Cor 1:2. We must pray with and for others.
My belovedis not to be found in the streets of the city, and the crowd and noise that are there; there I have in vain looked for him” (as his parents
sought him among their kindred and acquaintance, and found him not); “but he
has gone down to his garden, a place of privacy and retirement.” The more we withdraw from the hurry of the world the more likely we are to have acquaintance with Christ, who took his disciples into a garden, there to be witnesses of the agonies of his love. Christ’s church is a garden enclosed, and separated from the open common of the world; it is
his garden, which he has planted as he did the garden of Eden, which he takes care of, and delights in. Though he had gone up to the paradise above, yet he comes down to his garden on earth; it lies low, but he condescends to visit it, and wonderful condescension it is.
Will God in very deed dwell with man upon the earth? Those that would find Christ may expect to meet with him
in his gardenthe church, for
there he records his name(Exod 20:24); they must attend upon him in the ordinances which he has instituted, the word, sacraments, and prayer, wherein he will be with us
always, even to the end of the world. The spouse here refers to what Christ had said (Song 5:1),
I have come into my garden. It is as if she had said, “What a fool was I to fret and fatigue myself in seeking him where he was not, when he himself had told me where he was!” Words of direction and comfort are often out of the way when we have occasion to use them, till the blessed Spirit brings them to our remembrance, and then we wonder how we overlooked them. Christ has told us that he would
come into his garden; thither therefore we must go to seek him.
The beds, and smaller
gardens, in this greater, are the particular churches, the
synagogues of God in the land(Ps 84:8); the
spicesand
liliesare particular believers, the planting of the Lord, and pleasant in his eyes. When Christ comes down to his church it is,
To feedamong
the gardens, to feed his flock, which he feeds not, as other shepherds, in the open fields, but in his garden, so well are they provided for, Ps 23:2. He comes to feed his friends, and entertain them; there you may not only find him, but find his table richly furnished, and a hearty welcome to it. He comes to feed himself, that is, to please himself with the products of his own grace in his people;
for the Lord takes pleasure in those that fear him. He has many gardens, many particular churches of different sizes and shapes; but, while they are his, he feeds in them all, manifests himself among them, and is well pleased with them.
To gather lilies, wherewith he is pleased to entertain and adorn himself. He picks the lilies one by one, and gathers them to himself; and there will be a general harvest of them at the great day, when he will send forth his angels, to gather all his lilies, that he may be for ever glorified and admired in them.
I am my beloved’s, and my beloved is mine; the relation is mutual, and the knot is tied, which cannot be loosed; for
he feeds among the lilies, and my communion with him is a certain token of my interest in him.” She had said this before (Song 2:16); but,
I am my beloved’s;” for every transgression in the covenant does not throw us out of covenant. “He has justly hidden his face from me and denied me his comforts, and yet
my beloved is mine;” for rebukes and chastenings are not only consistent with, but they flow from covenant-love.
Christ is mine and I am his.”
I am my beloved’s, entirely devoted and dedicated to him; and then her interest in him and in his grace: “
My beloved is mine, and I am happy, truly happy in him.” If our own hearts can but witness for us that we are his, there is no room left to question his being ours; for the covenant never breaks on his side.
he feeds among the lilies, that he takes delight in his people and converses freely with them, as we do with those with whom we feed; and therefore, though at present he be withdrawn, “I shall meet with him again.
I shall yet praise him who is the health of my countenance, and my God.”